We are all on a Relationship path:

Interest/Vetting, Dating, Commitment, Growth or Loss, Healing/Recovery...

Now serving the Dane County area for in person classes. Remote workshops available everywhere.

What is the

Fisher Rebuilding Seminar™?

Recovering from divorce or romantic relationship loss can be a traumatic and painful process with emotional challenges. Those wounds don't necessarily heal with time. A person can get “stuck” Growth, evolution and recovery is about incremental change, day by day. Our goal is to provide the support, information, training and community to help heal those wounds, permanently.

Divorce Recovery Classes

The seminar classes break everything down into small steps – with tools, resources, lessons, activities, and engagement to help you heal the wounds so that you can let, move on, and start a new chapter.

Seminar Classes

Be free of the anger, honor the grief, learn how to not repeat the cycle, find yourself again. All with your new friends that are waiting for you in the next upcoming class. You are led by a highly trained facilitator that is an expert in the divorce recovery process.

1-1 Coaching and Counseling

In addition to group Facilitation, you have access to a Licensed Therapist to help you remove the obstacles that are holding you back. Kirk Stone, LPC_IT can schedule individual 1 hour sessions to work with you on specific topics and areas of the Rebuilding process. He is available to guide and support you as you navigate the complicated issues that you are facing.

Next Class Starting

June 1st

Who we help

The wounds of separation are first created when the "D" word is first uttered. It can create an immediate rift in the relationship. If you are heading towards divorce, in the divorce process, or already divorced then we can help you. The circumstances of your breakup are unique, the effects are common.

Beth of Puffins Presentation

In Pursuit of Wellness

November 30, 20244 min read

In Pursuit of Wellness

In Pursuit of Wellness

Beth Dibbert

When you think about health care, what comes to mind? For some, it’s a pursuit of wellness connecting mind, body, and spirit. For others, health care is like a car’s transmission – you don’t really notice or appreciate it until it’s making a noise, or completely broken.

People in the middle of a crisis or transition in a significant relationship can feel especially stressed, which we all know affects our health. Some may find themselves both ill and alone for the first time.

My name is Beth, and I am writing a series of articles designed to help you navigate today’s complex health care system. I am a nurse by training, but several years ago I became interested in the study of “quality” care – especially for patients who are in the hospital. None of what I write will be an endorsement for a particular hospital or care system, nor is any of the content meant to recommend any course of treatment. Simply, I will be giving you information so that you can make educated choices about your own health care. I invite your comments and conversation.

Whether you have visited your local emergency department, or provider/physician clinic, or have been a patient in the hospital recently, you may have received a “patient satisfaction survey” in the mail. The survey often contains questions about the timeliness of your visit, how the food was, or whether it was quiet at night. Most surveys ask about whether your provider or nurse communicated information about your medications or care plan in ways you could understand.

Many insurers, including the federal government (aka Medicare) require certain types of providers or organizations to collect and publicly report the results of these surveys. If you have a specific comment, whether it’s a kudos or complaint, those are forwarded straight to the provider for an opportunity for a direct response to you.

Soon, there will be an additional set of questions that will be included in hospital patient satisfaction surveys. The three new questions are part of a bundle called “Care Transition Measures”. Simply, hospitals are required to prepare you for discharge – whether you are going back home or on to another care setting (like a nursing home). And for good reason! Medicare is now financially penalizing certain hospitals for re-admissions of certain patients within 30 days. Unnecessary re-admissions are costly and dangerous for patients and the health care system.

Let’s have a look at the questions:

Question 1: During this hospital stay, staff took my preferences and those of my family or caregiver into account in deciding what my healthcare needs would be when I left.

Question 2:  When I left the hospital, I had a good understanding of the things I was responsible for in managing my health.

Question 3: When I left the hospital, I clearly understood the purpose for taking each of my medications.

Hospitals will be scored on the number of questions that received a “Agree” or “Strongly Agree” in each of the questions multiplied by the number of patients that were eligible to receive a survey. Hospitals will be focusing more and more on equipping patients and their families or other caregivers in how to manage their health issues outside of the hospital. They will work hard to teach and communicate with you, and ask you several times whether you understand what they are trying to show you.

You and your caregivers have the responsibility to speak up, ask questions, and otherwise seek out information, until you are sure that you understand. Are going through a significant change in a relationship, to the extent that you are managing your health all by yourself? You should ask around to find out who might help serve as a healthcare “buddy” for you. Someone who at least knows the basics about where your medication list is, or who your regular provider is. Someone you can call on when you are ill, or who might be okay with listing their name as a contact person should you become hospitalized.

Transitioning out of the hospital can be tricky, whether you are going home or to another care setting. It’s important to have another set of ears, and perhaps another voice if you are not able to speak for yourself. Hospitals are paying attention to how you will be able to cope after you leave. You should do all you can, too.

Health care systemPatient satisfaction surveysHospital care transitionManaging health after dischargePatient empowermentQuality care in hospitalsCaregiver supportDischarge planningUnderstanding medications
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You're In Good Hands

Depression, overwhelm, anger, loneliness and rumination can affect practically every aspect of our lives. Successfully dealing with the thoughts and feelings that keeping you "stuck" opens up new possibilities for life. Divorce is a shame based trauma. You need the support and guidance from others. Even your best thinking isn't enough. When you work with us you learn how to shift your thoughts from being the victim to the victor. You will see your anger evaporate and your grief dissipate. You will be able to truly feel happy.

When are you going to make "someday" become "today"?

Testimonials

We’re proud of the group classes and coaching services we’ve provided for all of our clients.

"The course was exceptional. It was the bargain of a lifetime" - Fred

"I wish I had found the class a lot sooner." - Charlene

"I realized the importance of who I am" - Carl

"It changed my life. I now know I can handle anything" - Jamie

"Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!" - Cathryn

"Now I'm not settling for anything less than pure happiness." - Terish

"I realized that until I really grieved and let it all out that I couldn't move on, and this program helped me do that." - Erin

"I feel joy again for the first time in several years." - Denise

"I couldn't have done it without Relationship Builders" - Peter

"This is the best thing I've ever done." - Sandy

"It's been 10 years since my divorce and I still had a lot of grief." - Rick

"The Rebuilders workshop was a game changer for me." - Rudi

"I really think Rebuilders is unique." - Margaret

"The group experience is absolutely worth its weight in gold." - Karen

"My self esteem was pretty low and this program really helped me." - Jewel

Stay up to date

Ready to continue Rebuilding and Building? Stay up to date on the latest news, articles, and blogs.

Beth of Puffins Presentation

In Pursuit of Wellness

November 30, 20244 min read

In Pursuit of Wellness

In Pursuit of Wellness

Beth Dibbert

When you think about health care, what comes to mind? For some, it’s a pursuit of wellness connecting mind, body, and spirit. For others, health care is like a car’s transmission – you don’t really notice or appreciate it until it’s making a noise, or completely broken.

People in the middle of a crisis or transition in a significant relationship can feel especially stressed, which we all know affects our health. Some may find themselves both ill and alone for the first time.

My name is Beth, and I am writing a series of articles designed to help you navigate today’s complex health care system. I am a nurse by training, but several years ago I became interested in the study of “quality” care – especially for patients who are in the hospital. None of what I write will be an endorsement for a particular hospital or care system, nor is any of the content meant to recommend any course of treatment. Simply, I will be giving you information so that you can make educated choices about your own health care. I invite your comments and conversation.

Whether you have visited your local emergency department, or provider/physician clinic, or have been a patient in the hospital recently, you may have received a “patient satisfaction survey” in the mail. The survey often contains questions about the timeliness of your visit, how the food was, or whether it was quiet at night. Most surveys ask about whether your provider or nurse communicated information about your medications or care plan in ways you could understand.

Many insurers, including the federal government (aka Medicare) require certain types of providers or organizations to collect and publicly report the results of these surveys. If you have a specific comment, whether it’s a kudos or complaint, those are forwarded straight to the provider for an opportunity for a direct response to you.

Soon, there will be an additional set of questions that will be included in hospital patient satisfaction surveys. The three new questions are part of a bundle called “Care Transition Measures”. Simply, hospitals are required to prepare you for discharge – whether you are going back home or on to another care setting (like a nursing home). And for good reason! Medicare is now financially penalizing certain hospitals for re-admissions of certain patients within 30 days. Unnecessary re-admissions are costly and dangerous for patients and the health care system.

Let’s have a look at the questions:

Question 1: During this hospital stay, staff took my preferences and those of my family or caregiver into account in deciding what my healthcare needs would be when I left.

Question 2:  When I left the hospital, I had a good understanding of the things I was responsible for in managing my health.

Question 3: When I left the hospital, I clearly understood the purpose for taking each of my medications.

Hospitals will be scored on the number of questions that received a “Agree” or “Strongly Agree” in each of the questions multiplied by the number of patients that were eligible to receive a survey. Hospitals will be focusing more and more on equipping patients and their families or other caregivers in how to manage their health issues outside of the hospital. They will work hard to teach and communicate with you, and ask you several times whether you understand what they are trying to show you.

You and your caregivers have the responsibility to speak up, ask questions, and otherwise seek out information, until you are sure that you understand. Are going through a significant change in a relationship, to the extent that you are managing your health all by yourself? You should ask around to find out who might help serve as a healthcare “buddy” for you. Someone who at least knows the basics about where your medication list is, or who your regular provider is. Someone you can call on when you are ill, or who might be okay with listing their name as a contact person should you become hospitalized.

Transitioning out of the hospital can be tricky, whether you are going home or to another care setting. It’s important to have another set of ears, and perhaps another voice if you are not able to speak for yourself. Hospitals are paying attention to how you will be able to cope after you leave. You should do all you can, too.

Health care systemPatient satisfaction surveysHospital care transitionManaging health after dischargePatient empowermentQuality care in hospitalsCaregiver supportDischarge planningUnderstanding medications
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Contact Us

You’ve already come a long way. Let’s reach the next level together.

 

Email: info@relationshipbuilding360.com

Address:

6402 Odana Rd,
Madison, WI 53719

Phone:

608-204-6076